Ok how can i stop being soooo shy??

im a really shy girl im turing 14 nd i dnt want 2 be shy ne more i want 2 be fun nd outgoing being able 2 get more friends nd talk 2 cute boys witout blushing i hate being shy its so annoying plz help ive tried not being shy nd its hard cuz i already got use 2 it i guess =[[